SECRETS TO A SUCCESSFUL RELATIONSHIP.
(Respect each other).
Last time, we talked about teamwork as an important skill in making your relationship a success. Today, we will be talking about another important skill in making your relationship a success; we will be talking about 'Respect each other'.
WHAT DO WE MEAN BY 'RESPECT EACH OTHER '?
To respect your spouse means that you appreciate him/her value and you don't want to do anything that will ruin him/her or your relationship.
The absence of respect in every relationship leads to sarcasm, criticism, hyppurist and also contempt for one another. Remember that this very factors leads to breakups or divorce.
When you criticize your partner, you only hurt not only their feelings; but their self respect, pride, trust and confidence and in so doing, you have destroyed your relationship.
Respecting your partner brings you closer together. You find it easier to communicate and listen to one another. They can also compromise for one another's sake/favour.
You can show your partner that you respect him/her by your actions, you can choose to make him/her happy with small deeds or acts that generate genuine love and respect.
Remember that in every true relationship,there is no right now wrong.. You both are one and should treat each other as such. You can start now in showing your partner that you love and respect him/her by making a list of the characters you love about him/her and you can appreciate him/her for those characters. You both can make a list and then exchange your lists.
Stay tuned love, we will be back and this time, we will be talking about another skill called 'forgiveness'...
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(Respect each other).
WHAT DO WE MEAN BY 'RESPECT EACH OTHER '?
To respect your spouse means that you appreciate him/her value and you don't want to do anything that will ruin him/her or your relationship.
The absence of respect in every relationship leads to sarcasm, criticism, hyppurist and also contempt for one another. Remember that this very factors leads to breakups or divorce.
When you criticize your partner, you only hurt not only their feelings; but their self respect, pride, trust and confidence and in so doing, you have destroyed your relationship.
Respecting your partner brings you closer together. You find it easier to communicate and listen to one another. They can also compromise for one another's sake/favour.
You can show your partner that you respect him/her by your actions, you can choose to make him/her happy with small deeds or acts that generate genuine love and respect.
Remember that in every true relationship,there is no right now wrong.. You both are one and should treat each other as such. You can start now in showing your partner that you love and respect him/her by making a list of the characters you love about him/her and you can appreciate him/her for those characters. You both can make a list and then exchange your lists.
Stay tuned love, we will be back and this time, we will be talking about another skill called 'forgiveness'...
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Be inspired