SECRETS TO A SUCCESSFUL RELATIONSHIP.
(Forgive one another)...
(Forgive one another)...
Last time, we talked about 'respect each other' as an important skill in making your relationship a success. Today we will be talking about Forgiveness.
WHAT DO WE MEAN BY FORGIVENESS?
forgiveness in every meaningful relationship is the process of letting go of every resentment, anger, grudge and hurt you have on your spouse or partner. For if you really want your relationship to succeed ,you really need to let go of resentment; because resentment harms not only your relationship, but also harms you physically and emotionally too.
When you don't forgive your partner or spouse when he/she hurts you, you put a strain on your relationship. If you truly love someone, you ought to be look past that person's flaws and strive to help him/her become the better person he/she can be.
When conflict/fights occurs between two couples, it is forgiveness that puts out the flames caused by such conflicts. The truth is that forgiveness isn't easy at all. It takes a lot of strength and will, coupled with humility to apologize and also to forgive too.
If you want your relationship to succeed, you have got to let go of that anger and hurt inside of you. True, you don't have to pretend the incidence never occurred nor try to belittle the offence, you will only be hurting yourself; but you can choose to still accept the person just for who he/she is and also because you love him/her.
So far so well, Love is still always the answer to all problems. When you love someone, remember that you willingly open yourself to be hurt over and over again but when we look at the greater picture, we find out that it was worth it.
So let love lead and as it does so, remember all the skills we have talked about so far. I wish your relationship all the happiness in the world. Be happy always!.
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